What 98 years and a caramel cake mean to our family

Our grandfather is 98 years old. Every year, we all make sure his birthday is a special day, complete with his favorite cake: a classic caramel cake. That familiar choice belongs to his celebration because it is what he loves.

When you are planning your own parent's birthday, that is a lovely place to begin. What cake would they choose for themselves? What small detail would make them smile? Sometimes the answer is the flavor they have asked for year after year. Sometimes it is seeing their age celebrated with a cake made just for them.

A 98th birthday deserves its own gathering, its own photographs, and its own favorite slice. So does a 76th or an 83rd. We can look forward to the next milestone while making this year's birthday feel full of love.

Number cake ideas for 70th, 80th, 90th, and 100th birthdays

A cake shaped into an age gives the whole family a natural place to gather for a photograph. For an adult child planning a parent's birthday, it also provides a clear starting point: the number, a favorite color, and one personal detail. Our custom number cakes can be the inspiration for that conversation.

For a 70th birthday cake, consider a color your mother or father wears often, with a detail inspired by a favorite pastime. An 80th birthday cake might pair the number with a short message such as “Loved by generations.” For a 90th birthday, let the digits remain easy to see and give a family nickname a little space beside them. A 100th birthday introduces three digits, so discuss the display space and servings with Terri when describing your idea.

These are starting points you can adapt at any age. Grandma might love bold colors; Grandpa might prefer a soft, simple finish. Ask how they feel about displaying their age, and let their taste guide the design. The number 61 cake pictured here is a real TSC example of celebrating a birthday between decade milestones.

For families considering birthday cakes in Belleville, IL, share the exact age and guest count together. A cake's digits do not tell you how many people it serves. Terri can review the size, design, and available options for your gathering.

Give the cake a detail only your family would choose

Think about the person you know beyond the title of parent or grandparent. Maybe your father loves tending his garden, your mother has a favorite song, or your great-grandmother is known for a particular color. Those details can help a number cake feel personal without filling every inch with decorations.

Invite the grandchildren or great-grandchildren to suggest a short message. “We love you, Papa” may carry more meaning than a long inscription. Browse the TSC cake gallery together and choose the feature that reminds you most of the guest of honor.

A custom photo or image cake offers another way to bring family memories to the table. Consider a favorite portrait or a photograph with the grandchildren. Choose a clear original image and tell Terri which people and details matter most. The photo cake shown here illustrates that approach; it is a past TSC design, not a photograph of our grandfather's celebration.

Pink heart-shaped birthday cake with piped borders and a strip of family photographs around its sides.
A past TSC photo cake shows how family pictures can become part of a birthday design. Discuss your preferred cake shape and image placement.Photo: Terri's Sweet Cakes

Make room for their favorite cake and this year's memories

A number cake can be a beautiful centerpiece, and a classic layer cake can be just as personal. Our grandfather's caramel cake reminds us to start with the birthday person's favorite. If you hope to combine a particular flavor with a number shape, ask which options work together before settling on the design.

Keep the celebration comfortable for Mom or Dad, whether that means a family dinner or a larger gathering. Make time for a picture with the generations together, a few shared memories, and a slice enjoyed at their pace. Great-grandfathers and great-grandmothers deserve celebrations that reflect what they enjoy today.

When you are ready, tell Terri about your parent's birthday cake: the date, age, servings, favorite flavor, colors, and the detail that makes it theirs. Confirm availability and pickup or delivery arrangements for your order. If the date is close, our short-notice birthday cake guide can help you prepare the request. Whether this year brings 80 candles, 98, or a number in between, there is something worth celebrating right now.